Meet Carl Dawkins
So, here I am typing away and trying to figure out exactly how I got
here- enough to be able to support myself as a musician, and lucky
enough to be writing for this magazine. The point of my columns issue
by issue is to help other bass players like myself trying to get into
the same situation: progressing as a bass player in the musical world.
Although we all play the same instrument, the reasoning behind why we
started bass and why we want to progress at the bass is almost always
different. This raises the questions how come everybody isn't doing
it? The answer is that although we all have different goals and
reasons for wanting to play bass. There are a LOT of bass players
doing it and I guarantee that there is always one better or more
dedicated than yourself trying to do it.
So, where does this leave us? If everyone is trying to do the same thing, then why bother...?
Wrong. Because as soon as you start thinking this your on a slippery
slope! So the first thing that must always be put into practice is
'stay positive'. You could lose the opportunity of a lifetime, but as
long as you stay positive then others will come along. Every time an
idea falls through or you don't get an audition, you may feel a bit
blue for a few days, or even a week, but the longer you stay in this
negative frame of mind, the more opportunities you will lose.
Life is all experience and even the bad ones help us. I have had many
opportunities come my way some better than others- and some of them
do fall through. Whether it's your fault or just circumstance, all you
can do is analyze the situation, don't dwell on it, and move forward.
Easier said than done yes, but after the first knockback has settled
and you get an even better opportunity come your way, it will be easier
to deal with anything that may stand in your way.
Everyone suffers from things that prevent them getting where they want.
I guarantee any professional will share their stories or rejection.
Now I know this all sounds very depressing for the for first article,
but I thought I would get this covered now because so many young bass
players lose there confidence, their desire to play and their want for
success early on because they suffer a minor setback and don't know how
to - or don't want to - deal with it.
Any feedback, or knockback stories that may be helpful to others then please share them on here!
Thank guys and see you next issue... And remember stay positive!